What is my role?

Ephesians 4:29

Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

Ephesians 5:25
Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

Proverbs 22:6

Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.